Take Her To A Strip Club
As all of you know I am not only fascinated with and love sex but even more importantly the relationship the surrounds the act. How people interact in daily life and the ground work laid for any relationship determines the type, amount and quality of sex we have. This topic is so important to me that I wrote a book. It hits the shelves this June and yes you will be the first to hear about where to get it:) In the mean time let’s have a fun and colorful chat about SEX.
How many emails do I get from men wondering why their sex lives suck? Why isn’t my wife that into sex anymore? Why won’t she swallow? Why can’t I even get my girl to go to a strip club with me? Ok wow too many questions so let’s just talk about the later and all the other questions can be found searching through COUPLESCLICK.TV
This one seriously intrigues me for several reasons. I am a fiscal conservative and Bible believing woman. I know I get all the crazed emails, but it is so. I have found harmony and balance in my world and I love the freedom. Back to topic. Strip clubs. I have found through all the years of having this discussion with coupes a few commonalities. Insecurity and jealousy. Short and improper sentence indeed but the two are that closely related. When a woman is rock solid in where she stands in her relationship little is impossible. When the ground work for your relationship is built on trust (and that trust has not been broken) she is secure. When a woman is secure in who she is and who you guys are as a couple….she is more likely to be sexually adventurous and to want sex more often than not. Some of this YOU can control…some you can not.
For a woman to be secure in her self she needs to have self respect and confidence. You can help with this by complimenting her and edifying her. Help her accomplish personal goals and build trust through your actions. Letting her know how beautiful she is and being affectionate are majorly important. When a woman looses her security in herself or relationship…look out things get ugly. Jealousy and insecurity make woman do some bizarre things and no one wins. It definitely takes two. If you are the perfect guy and she is just resistant to having any sexual fun ( re-evaluate who your mate is). If you started with a prude, she may always be a prude. Shame on you if you thought you would change her. If she was wild, and now…sleeper, WAKE UP! Look at the facts. What has changed? talk talk talk and get back on the path to fun.
Strip club. As long as your woman does not think you are there to find a girlfriend, you should be able to have a HOT time. She will nto think this if you haev build the security in your relationship. This environmant can be very condusive to fabulous sex later. Gentlemen’s clubs offer a sultry and tantillizing atmosphere that can really get your love juices flowing. To me it is like hours of foreplay. While there ( if you get her in teh building) sit back and enjoy. Let your woman know she tops all teh entertainers and let her take the lead as far as wither or not to get a dance and from whom. Take it at her pace, she may surprise you!
xxx
Brandi
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