Men VS Women
I wish life were simpler. Sounds dumb huh? Don’t get me wrong, I love life…. mine really is great, I can honestly say however I wish it were simpler. I have tried over the years to tame responsibility down, to focus on only the most important things. For awhile the feeling of control and focus will last and then boom…. life can throw a curve ball and feel very complicated. Admittedly some of my chaos is self induced. It has been a pattern in my life for as long as I can remember. Being aware of my unstructured chaos has made me a more productive individual that has a plan and works the plan. That being said. Every once in awhile I fall back not the chaotic behavior. And yet other times the actions of others cause the chaos. Are you completely confused yet? Damn sorry I am trying here.
Back to hormones. Perhaps it is much much deeper than a hormonal difference between men and women but I simply can not imagine what else it can be. Stress and such it delta with differently by different people. We can try as we might to be empathetic and supportive but sometimes it is just not enough and we can actually find ourselves only making the matter worse. Being a “fixer” myself, it is very rough to not be able to sooth the pressure or stress my closest peeps are dealing with. Sometimes I guess giving someone alone time and space is best. If I ever figure it out my friends I promise to share my findings with you:)
I will however, for the rest of my life, do my damnedest to figure how to make life as simple as I can. Pay my bills, have enough to be adventurous and travel, afford fine wine, and enjoy a stress free life full of laughter and love. Those are my goals…. that simple. What are your life goals?
xxx
Brandi
